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		<title>By: Carey Kirkella</title>
		<link>http://selfishmom.com/2009/11/19/spanking-do-you-or-dont-you/#comment-4754</link>
		<dc:creator>Carey Kirkella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 20:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I was still in diapers my mother gave me a little pat on the bum because I kept trying to touch the hot stove.  Apparently I was shocked by this and so I immediately fainted.  I never got spanked again!&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4754&#039;,&#039;Carey Kirkella&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4754&#039;,&#039;Carey Kirkella&#039;,&#039;When I was still in diapers my mother gave me a little pat on the bum because I kept trying to touch the hot stove.  Apparently I was shocked by this and so I immediately fainted.  I never got spanked again!&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was still in diapers my mother gave me a little pat on the bum because I kept trying to touch the hot stove.  Apparently I was shocked by this and so I immediately fainted.  I never got spanked again!
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://selfishmom.com/2009/11/19/spanking-do-you-or-dont-you/#comment-4750</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&#039;#comment-4748&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@always home and uncool&lt;/a&gt; - OMG, that&#039;s the funniest thing I&#039;ve ever heard!  Like keeping a little doll in the closet to step on.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4750&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4750&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;,&#039;&lt;a href=\&#039;#comment-4748\&#039; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@always home and uncool&lt;\/a&gt; - OMG, that\&#039;s the funniest thing I\&#039;ve ever heard!  Like keeping a little doll in the closet to step on.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='#comment-4748' rel="nofollow">@always home and uncool</a> &#8211; OMG, that&#8217;s the funniest thing I&#8217;ve ever heard!  Like keeping a little doll in the closet to step on.
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&#039;#comment-4747&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@chefdruck&lt;/a&gt; - Thanks!  I think they edited out all the parts where I said &quot;Um...&quot; and stumbled. :-)

Everybody&#039;s day just go better in EVERY way when I stay calm.  So I try to count, walk out of the room, take deep breaths.  Doesn&#039;t always work, but I&#039;m getting better.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4749&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4749&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;,&#039;&lt;a href=\&#039;#comment-4747\&#039; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@chefdruck&lt;\/a&gt; - Thanks!  I think they edited out all the parts where I said \&quot;Um...\&quot; and stumbled. :-)\r\n\r\nEverybody\&#039;s day just go better in EVERY way when I stay calm.  So I try to count, walk out of the room, take deep breaths.  Doesn\&#039;t always work, but I\&#039;m getting better.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='#comment-4747' rel="nofollow">@chefdruck</a> &#8211; Thanks!  I think they edited out all the parts where I said &#8220;Um&#8230;&#8221; and stumbled. <img src='http://selfishmom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Everybody&#8217;s day just go better in EVERY way when I stay calm.  So I try to count, walk out of the room, take deep breaths.  Doesn&#8217;t always work, but I&#8217;m getting better.
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		<title>By: always home and uncool</title>
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		<dc:creator>always home and uncool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marinka and I apparently didn&#039;t rattle you enough before your big debut. Curses!

As for discipline, now I just go downstairs, flip on the Wii and beat the snot out of my kids&#039; Miis in boxing. My skill rating is WAAAAAY up.

Cheers.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4748&#039;,&#039;always home and uncool&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4748&#039;,&#039;always home and uncool&#039;,&#039;Marinka and I apparently didn\&#039;t rattle you enough before your big debut. Curses!\r\n\r\nAs for discipline, now I just go downstairs, flip on the Wii and beat the snot out of my kids\&#039; Miis in boxing. My skill rating is WAAAAAY up.\r\n\r\nCheers.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marinka and I apparently didn&#8217;t rattle you enough before your big debut. Curses!</p>
<p>As for discipline, now I just go downstairs, flip on the Wii and beat the snot out of my kids&#8217; Miis in boxing. My skill rating is WAAAAAY up.</p>
<p>Cheers.
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		<title>By: chefdruck</title>
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		<dc:creator>chefdruck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy,
I think you did a great job on the show. You came across as articulate and considerate as a parent. I&#039;ve spanked before, as a last resort, in times of danger, when nothing else seemed to work. But the next day, I pulled out my parenting books to find other solutions.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4747&#039;,&#039;chefdruck&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4747&#039;,&#039;chefdruck&#039;,&#039;Amy,\r\nI think you did a great job on the show. You came across as articulate and considerate as a parent. I\&#039;ve spanked before, as a last resort, in times of danger, when nothing else seemed to work. But the next day, I pulled out my parenting books to find other solutions.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy,<br />
I think you did a great job on the show. You came across as articulate and considerate as a parent. I&#8217;ve spanked before, as a last resort, in times of danger, when nothing else seemed to work. But the next day, I pulled out my parenting books to find other solutions.
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		<title>By: Tweets that mention Spanking: do ya or donâ€™t ya? &#124; Selfish Mom -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Spanking: do ya or donâ€™t ya? &#124; Selfish Mom -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:29:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&#039;#comment-4744&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt&lt;/a&gt; - I agree with you.  My kids love to bust me.  If I hit them I would lose all credibility trying to teach them not to hit.  But a few times, I&#039;ve grabbed my son, squeezed his shoulders, and said through clenched teeth &quot;You&#039;re SO lucky I don&#039;t hit.&quot;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4745&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4745&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;,&#039;&lt;a href=\&#039;#comment-4744\&#039; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt&lt;\/a&gt; - I agree with you.  My kids love to bust me.  If I hit them I would lose all credibility trying to teach them not to hit.  But a few times, I\&#039;ve grabbed my son, squeezed his shoulders, and said through clenched teeth \&quot;You\&#039;re SO lucky I don\&#039;t hit.\&quot;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='#comment-4744' rel="nofollow">@Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt</a> &#8211; I agree with you.  My kids love to bust me.  If I hit them I would lose all credibility trying to teach them not to hit.  But a few times, I&#8217;ve grabbed my son, squeezed his shoulders, and said through clenched teeth &#8220;You&#8217;re SO lucky I don&#8217;t hit.&#8221;
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		<title>By: Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 05:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t spank. It&#039;s really hard to teach your kids &quot;we don&#039;t hit&quot; when, well, we hit them. But I have tried spanking a few times. It didn&#039;t work.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4744&#039;,&#039;Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4744&#039;,&#039;Susan at Working Moms Against Guilt&#039;,&#039;I don\&#039;t spank. It\&#039;s really hard to teach your kids \&quot;we don\&#039;t hit\&quot; when, well, we hit them. But I have tried spanking a few times. It didn\&#039;t work.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t spank. It&#8217;s really hard to teach your kids &#8220;we don&#8217;t hit&#8221; when, well, we hit them. But I have tried spanking a few times. It didn&#8217;t work.
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