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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://selfishmom.com/2009/11/24/santa-claus-i-almost-spilled-the-beans/#comment-4774</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 21:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&#039;#comment-4773&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Toni&lt;/a&gt; - I dunno, there seems to be a large sub-set of the population that has found a way to believe in that stuff well into adulthood.  And there are just too many to institutionalize so we&#039;ve decided to call them &quot;gamers&quot; and back slowly out of the room.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4774&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4774&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;,&#039;&lt;a href=\&#039;#comment-4773\&#039; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Toni&lt;\/a&gt; - I dunno, there seems to be a large sub-set of the population that has found a way to believe in that stuff well into adulthood.  And there are just too many to institutionalize so we\&#039;ve decided to call them \&quot;gamers\&quot; and back slowly out of the room.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='#comment-4773' rel="nofollow">@Toni</a> &#8211; I dunno, there seems to be a large sub-set of the population that has found a way to believe in that stuff well into adulthood.  And there are just too many to institutionalize so we&#8217;ve decided to call them &#8220;gamers&#8221; and back slowly out of the room.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4774','Amy'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4774','Amy','&lt;a href=\'#comment-4773\' rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Toni&lt;\/a&gt; - I dunno, there seems to be a large sub-set of the population that has found a way to believe in that stuff well into adulthood.  And there are just too many to institutionalize so we\'ve decided to call them \&quot;gamers\&quot; and back slowly out of the room.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Toni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Toni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My mother had no such qualms. :) 
He&#039;ll figure it out, sooner or later. He may in fact already &quot;know&quot;. Every kid I know, these days, goes through a couple of years, abt. 8 to 11-ish, where they &quot;know&quot; but they don&#039;t SAY they know. I think they still like playing along, it&#039;s fun, it&#039;s sort of the last time in your life you get to believe in magic and elves without being, you know, committed.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4773&#039;,&#039;Toni&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4773&#039;,&#039;Toni&#039;,&#039;My mother had no such qualms. :) \r\nHe\&#039;ll figure it out, sooner or later. He may in fact already \&quot;know\&quot;. Every kid I know, these days, goes through a couple of years, abt. 8 to 11-ish, where they \&quot;know\&quot; but they don\&#039;t SAY they know. I think they still like playing along, it\&#039;s fun, it\&#039;s sort of the last time in your life you get to believe in magic and elves without being, you know, committed.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother had no such qualms. <img src='http://selfishmom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
He&#8217;ll figure it out, sooner or later. He may in fact already &#8220;know&#8221;. Every kid I know, these days, goes through a couple of years, abt. 8 to 11-ish, where they &#8220;know&#8221; but they don&#8217;t SAY they know. I think they still like playing along, it&#8217;s fun, it&#8217;s sort of the last time in your life you get to believe in magic and elves without being, you know, committed.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4773','Toni'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4773','Toni','My mother had no such qualms. :) \r\nHe\'ll figure it out, sooner or later. He may in fact already \&quot;know\&quot;. Every kid I know, these days, goes through a couple of years, abt. 8 to 11-ish, where they \&quot;know\&quot; but they don\'t SAY they know. I think they still like playing along, it\'s fun, it\'s sort of the last time in your life you get to believe in magic and elves without being, you know, committed.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 17:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&#039;#comment-4765&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Toni&lt;/a&gt; - I still say stuff like that to Fiona, but I&#039;m trying to skate that thin line with Jake between being truthful and keeping the fantasy going.  So &quot;they&quot; hire the helpers at this point.  Vagueness is my friend. :-)&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4769&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4769&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;,&#039;&lt;a href=\&#039;#comment-4765\&#039; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Toni&lt;\/a&gt; - I still say stuff like that to Fiona, but I\&#039;m trying to skate that thin line with Jake between being truthful and keeping the fantasy going.  So \&quot;they\&quot; hire the helpers at this point.  Vagueness is my friend. :-)&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='#comment-4765' rel="nofollow">@Toni</a> &#8211; I still say stuff like that to Fiona, but I&#8217;m trying to skate that thin line with Jake between being truthful and keeping the fantasy going.  So &#8220;they&#8221; hire the helpers at this point.  Vagueness is my friend. <img src='http://selfishmom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4769','Amy'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4769','Amy','&lt;a href=\'#comment-4765\' rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Toni&lt;\/a&gt; - I still say stuff like that to Fiona, but I\'m trying to skate that thin line with Jake between being truthful and keeping the fantasy going.  So \&quot;they\&quot; hire the helpers at this point.  Vagueness is my friend. :-)'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Toni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Toni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 14:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think my mom used to throw something in there about how they&#039;d all been personally hired by Santa, you know, like there were Santa job interviews up at the North Pole, to lend authenticity.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4765&#039;,&#039;Toni&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4765&#039;,&#039;Toni&#039;,&#039;I think my mom used to throw something in there about how they\&#039;d all been personally hired by Santa, you know, like there were Santa job interviews up at the North Pole, to lend authenticity.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think my mom used to throw something in there about how they&#8217;d all been personally hired by Santa, you know, like there were Santa job interviews up at the North Pole, to lend authenticity.
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
		<link>http://selfishmom.com/2009/11/24/santa-claus-i-almost-spilled-the-beans/#comment-4763</link>
		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is just so cute...he is really growing up!&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4763&#039;,&#039;Cara&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4763&#039;,&#039;Cara&#039;,&#039;That is just so cute...he is really growing up!&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is just so cute&#8230;he is really growing up!
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&#039;#comment-4757&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Lauren (@solstice621)&lt;/a&gt; - I like that.  It&#039;s like a Santa shell game - can you spot the real one?&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4760&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4760&#039;,&#039;Amy&#039;,&#039;&lt;a href=\&#039;#comment-4757\&#039; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Lauren (@solstice621)&lt;\/a&gt; - I like that.  It\&#039;s like a Santa shell game - can you spot the real one?&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='#comment-4757' rel="nofollow">@Lauren (@solstice621)</a> &#8211; I like that.  It&#8217;s like a Santa shell game &#8211; can you spot the real one?
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4760','Amy'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4760','Amy','&lt;a href=\'#comment-4757\' rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;@Lauren (@solstice621)&lt;\/a&gt; - I like that.  It\'s like a Santa shell game - can you spot the real one?'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Lauren (@solstice621)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauren (@solstice621)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 03:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a four year old and an infant and I am already getting nervous about answering &quot;the question&quot;. I like how you let him kind of work it out on his own before offering him some answers. Now at least you know that he&#039;s beginning to think about how it all works. And I have heard many moms use the &quot;santa&#039;s helpers&quot; story, but I plan on adding in that they all look similar because you never really know which one is the &quot;real&quot; one.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4757&#039;,&#039;Lauren (@solstice621)&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4757&#039;,&#039;Lauren (@solstice621)&#039;,&#039;I have a four year old and an infant and I am already getting nervous about answering \&quot;the question\&quot;. I like how you let him kind of work it out on his own before offering him some answers. Now at least you know that he\&#039;s beginning to think about how it all works. And I have heard many moms use the \&quot;santa\&#039;s helpers\&quot; story, but I plan on adding in that they all look similar because you never really know which one is the \&quot;real\&quot; one.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a four year old and an infant and I am already getting nervous about answering &#8220;the question&#8221;. I like how you let him kind of work it out on his own before offering him some answers. Now at least you know that he&#8217;s beginning to think about how it all works. And I have heard many moms use the &#8220;santa&#8217;s helpers&#8221; story, but I plan on adding in that they all look similar because you never really know which one is the &#8220;real&#8221; one.
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