Hi there, I’m Amy, founder of Selfish Mom, now known as Amy Ever After (that’s my old Selfish Mom header up there). I’m also a freelance writer and podcaster. I spend a lot of time on Twitter and Facebook, but here are some other contact options. I love doing video, and I also Periscope sometimes, so make sure you’re following me there too!
Working Mother recently named me one of the fifteen most powerful moms in social media. I’m trying hard not to abuse that power. A while back I was named Funniest Mom on Twitter by Babble.com (I guess I’m not funny anymore, because they’ve removed the link).
My writing has appeared in Redbook and on RedbookMag.com, and has been syndicated nationally. I’ve written recently for the Citizen Watch Blog, Motto, and Garnet News, and I’m really fortunate to be able to work with a lot of great companies and write about them here on Amy Ever After.
I spend the rest of my time avoiding housework and raising independent, self-sufficient children through a loving combination of benign neglect and inappropriate TV. I had no interest in spending all day on the playground when they were younger (playgrounds are for kids!), and now that they’re older I have no desire to cart them around from place to place, so they’re both learning how to use the NYC public transportation system on their own.
I don’t believe that my children should be the center of my life, even though they’re the most important thing in it. (Yes, I realize that makes no sense, but it couldn’t be more true.) We’re all in this together, but I was here first.
Some things you should know about me
I can argue a point all day and night, until you either convince me or give up, or the chair I’m sitting on catches fire. I like a good argument. Don’t take it personally, but don’t expect me to back down either. Unless I discover that you’re too dumb to debate, then I won’t waste my time. I said I like a good argument.
I’m an unapologetic atheist who sang in a church choir for a decade. I find Family Guy and Fark.com hilarious, so that should give you some idea of my sense of humor.
I’m a Democrat. Most of what I know about politics I learned from West Wing, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Rachel Maddow, and Last Week Tonight. The rest I learned from my husband, who is way smarter than I am (but don’t tell him I said that).
I’m a vegetarian, but not “that” kind of vegetarian. You won’t find me at any PETA rallies or giving you dirty looks for eating meat. But you may find me making hot dogs for my kids or meatballs for my husband (I’m told they’re awesome). I hate mushrooms, beets, and tofu, which makes being a vegetarian a little more challenging.
I don’t drink alcohol, although I’ve almost been driven to it on occasion by my family. I’ve never smoked a cigarette or tried any kind of illegal drug. But I’m not judging you, I swear. And I’ll always be the designated driver, which makes me a good friend to have.
You should assume that anything I write or say is sarcastic unless there’s some indication otherwise. Sarcasm is hard to pull off online, but it’s the only way I know how to communicate.